Many people across New Mexico experience dissociation without knowing what to call it. You may feel disconnected from your body, numb, unreal, foggy, or like you’re watching your life from the outside. Dissociation is often a normal response to overwhelming stress or trauma — not a sign that something is wrong with you. Through online therapy, we help clients throughout the state understand these symptoms with compassion and without fear.
Dissociation can show up in many ways, including:
• Feeling “far away” or numb
• Losing time or forgetting parts of the day
• Feeling unreal or disconnected from your surroundings
• Difficulty staying present during conversations
• Emotional shutdown or “going blank”
• Feeling like different parts of you want different things
• Feeling like you’re watching yourself from outside your body
These experiences can stem from trauma, chronic stress, burnout, childhood experiences, or nervous system overload. You are not alone — and support is available.
We offer trauma-informed therapy designed for people who experience dissociation. Our approach includes:
• EMDR adapted for dissociative symptoms
• Parts-aware and stabilization-first trauma work
• Grounding and nervous system regulation techniques
• Slow-paced reprocessing for complex trauma
• Gentle exploration of emotional “parts” or internal experiences
• Support for depersonalization, derealization, and dissociative coping
Our goal is never to “push” you — but to help you feel safe, present, and supported.
We serve clients across the entire state, including rural communities where dissociation-informed care is difficult to find. Clients frequently meet with us from:
• Roswell
• Clovis & Portales
• Ruidoso, Alto & Lincoln County
• Carlsbad & Artesia
• Hobbs & Lovington
• Albuquerque & Santa Fe
• Alamogordo & Otero County
• All surrounding Southern Eastern New Mexico rural areas
If you’ve felt alone with these symptoms, therapy can help you build stability, clarity, and emotional grounding.
We specialize in supporting adults and teens across New Mexico who are navigating trauma, anxiety, dissociation, relationship stress, or long-standing emotional overwhelm.
Our clients often include:
• Individuals with childhood or attachment trauma
• People experiencing dissociation or “shutting down”
• First responders, medical staff, educators, or caretakers
• Parents balancing work, family and emotional load
• Oilfield and shift-work professionals with inconsistent schedules
• Rural residents without access to specialty trauma care locally
If you see yourself in any of these experiences, you’re not alone — and telehealth EMDR or trauma-informed counseling can help you feel supported and grounded again.
Healing doesn’t have to wait. Whether you’re seeking EMDR therapy, dissociation-aware support, or trauma-informed counseling, we’re here to help you feel more grounded, connected, and emotionally safe.
Call 575-223-8184 or email mlsgutierrez@mentalhealthme.com anytime to begin.